Life's Love Lesson #247
What you define love to be is the standard by which you seek the same in return.
Many of us approach the concept of love from very different perspectives. We are divided among the ideas that love is a feeling, an action or a combination of both. Some feel that love is just an illusion rivaling that of the affects of an opium like substance; a result of a chemical affect we experience when a series of events and actions evoke strong feelings of desire, pleasure, or more simply put, happiness.
One thing to know about love is whenever you allow someone else to define your standard for love, you will never be truly fulfilled because love is tailored to each individual in such a way that though you may experience similar events in your life as someone else, your love is yours and your actions, reactions, emotions and subsequent decisions are based on an individual standard of love and what that standard means to you.
When you begin to learn why your love standards became to be what they are and how unique they are to you, then will you be able to identity in others, those qualities and feel a comfort in knowing that you have the capacity to choose love wisely. Love, itself however is not always intelligent. We leave it to our hearts to know what real love is and so many times our hearts have gotten the formula wrong but does our hearts understand what it's looking for or just relying on some magical feeling to verify love. This is when you consult your brain. Many people don't regard the mind as a reliable resourse when it comes to love. The mind is absolutely one of the greatest assests for loving someone.
Nope. Not your penis or birgina (I spelled that like that on purpose. someone will get the reference). Your mind is THEE best sex organ you will have. Okay the other ones are wonderful and pretty fun but the mind? Dammit. It's a sexy beast. Any way. How do you define love? What is love to you and in what way do you like people to show love to you? I would really love to hear back from you.
Be@Peace Loved Ones!
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