Kissing With Your Eyes Open.

Note: For any family who may read this...get over it. I'm grown. lolol. kidding. No, seriously, I am grown though.

Can you kiss someone with your eyes open? Well if the person you are kissing is someone who closes their eyes, sure you can. lol. Some people find it distracting and some may find it even a little creepy but some are just comfortable. As for me, I tend to kiss with my eyes open. I have NO idea why but I'm comfortable looking at the person. I guess it's my way of continually seeing how genuine people are.

For some people, intimacy is so private we hide it from ourselves. How many people do you know (including yourself) wouldn't dare open their eyes while they kiss, have sex in the daytime or with the lights on because of some insecurity or fear of actually seeing the other person, just seeing themselves or being seen?  The actuality of physically being vulnerable transfers to a psychological vulnerabilty that some people are afraid to confront. I'm not a psychologist or even remotely anyone who can or even should give councel to anyone regarding relationships, intimacy or sex but I'm just a regular person with some curiosity and personal perspectives on these topics that may make someone think the same as the perspectives of others give me reason to dig into my thought process.  If you don't normally open your eyes when you kiss someone, open them the next time. lol...

Not that I have kissed a fleet of men but here are some of the things I've seen. lol...Lord, Have Mercy. lol 

• I have seen someone so focused on his objective that you can actually see him mentally guiding his every action.
• I have seen someone who tried to prove he was a great kisser that I damn near pulled away and said "Really???"
• I have seen someone's tongue come for me before his lips did!!! EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!! LOL
• I have seen someone relaxed and let the moment be what it was; A moment of pure connection. He even opened his eyes a little. It was a feeling of searching. Almost like a secondary communication aside from the physical act going on at the time.

To look into someone's eyes while you're kissing may sound strange but it could be a great part of establishing intimacy. A man or woman who are afraid, unwilling or simple can't open their eyes during a kiss seems, to me, to wonder, 'what are you afraid of?' lol

Well, if I ever kiss someone again I'll do it with my eyes completely closed to see how it feels. I don't know. It's not like I stand there staring at the person but it's just something that was on my mind. 

Now...Imma go kiss someone.  I hope I don't get arrested. (fingers crossed)