Who do you love? Are you sure?

Those are the questions of the day.  Share if you have answers. :)

Only want what's best for you

There aren't too many times that I feel the need to hide real aspects of my life.  Some things are rather personal but I've never had then need to lie about anything yet I am definitely not trying to be over exposed like many people today.  We say "I want my privacy!" then turn and put our lives under a magnifying glass for the world to see.  This is just a way of saying "Look but don't judge."  How can we not?  Just another fine example of our contradictory society.  However, I digress.  Though blogs can be a part of the overexposure of self, I try to write things I know someone, somewhere may be going through as well.  In my mind, it's a way to show someone that they aren't alone and in a way, this is my own sounding board for anyone to listen because (and this is a part of my transparency),  I don't have many that will.

Here we go.

My blog, when I started, was focused on love.  Whatever that word means to me seems to be ever changing and for myself and others, the emotions love conveys, and the actions it provoke have become so raw and fragile.  To a degree, love is still my primary theme even if it's the sadness that love sometimes bring.  I'm having a harder time writing about romantic love these days.  I cannot identify well with what family love and support is suppose to look like so I don't write about that much.  Friendships, though few, have been good but most are conditional and depends on the level of need and the climate so there are many days, weeks, months, where I'm on my own. It's tough because you are told you are strong and you tell yourself you'll be okay but love hasn't shown up to tell you the same. Not the love you're looking for.

I believe that we should be transparent for the sake of not hiding things that will hurt others, however most people don't feel or think the same way.  I believe that if it's something that could even hurt yourself, whether physical or emotional, you should share with someone.  God didn't put us on this planet alone, without others to fill the void that pain and hurt can cause us. Unfortunately, for some of us, the only way to save ourselves is to shut down and pray that someone, GOD, anyone will help us to hit the reboot button.  Because I love very deeply, I find that emotionally shutting down for a while is the only thing that can save me right now.  I know people change and I'm the first to understand that we all stand in different footprints in this world; unique to ourselves.  Thinking hasn't helped my situation at all.  Us emotional over-thinkers can at different times make our own situations better but we can self-destruct with even more brilliance.

I've been called a liar by liars.  I have been called a bad friend by the worse "friends".  It's been said I have an attitude yet no one dare ask me why or if I actually have one.  No one wants to know what they contribute to your state of being but they are quick to assess you as if they are diagnosing you with a critical illness while they should be hooked up to an IV.

I don't lie.  I have never believed in just lying for nothing.  I don't even like lying for a reason that is "justifiable" so to just lie to make my self look innocent, smarter, better in any way seems worthless.  Even when the truth makes me look terrible, I believe by revealing the ugly truth I'm positioning myself to always be on a clean slate and not worry about what can be found out.  There are things that I may not tell people but those are things that are private vs. being untrue. There's a difference.  There are many situations that can lead to someone losing faith in people, themselves, and even God.  Be mindful of where you are emotionally, mentally and spiritually because you won't see it coming when your heart and mind are hit with a barrage of spears designed to end what innocence and belief you may have in others.  No one thinks they could feel lost until they are standing in the middle of the road with no map, no compass and no one to give them directions and the storm clouds are on the horizon. Stay Calm.

IN COMES TREY SONGZ

I think I'm officially mad at him for the last few days.  

So, I'm at work and sitting at my desk yesterday and I'm listening to my radio on my phone when a song comes on.  Normally, I'm not a fan of Trey Songz so I'm not necessarily willing to just sit through his songs.

Not that he's not talented.  I just wasn't into his highly vibrato voice but it seems to have gotten much better. Good for him.  

As I'm working, a song of his plays and I stop typing to listen.  First of all, I'm a instrumental person where if the music can touch me, the next step is the lyrics and if you can sing, TRIFECTA!  I sat and listened then I found it on YouTube and played it over and over until I fell asleep last night and then again this morning.  The lyrics tore my heart apart.  How do you make the hard decisions you know you need to but can't seem to make?  At some point we have to take ourselves out of the equations because sometimes what you want isn't the best for someone else.  This is a hard truth.  People may not see when you change but you do. They may not even see when they change but you do. Sometimes, you see when things won't change and I think that's even harder to deal with. When do we use these truths to become better people?  Who decides how we become better people? Better families?  Better friends?  Better lovers? Strive for better-ness not bitterness.  Working on my heart today.  It needs a massage.

Still mad a Trey though. hmph.

The Power of Silence

With all the chaotic sounds that swirl about our senses each day, to be given to silence, even for a moment, has the power to provoke great thought of one's life, purpose, next steps or just about anything that is heavy laden on your heart, mind and soul.  I have come to understand that through silence, revelations can be revealed about who you really are, the characters of others and the level of spiritual connection or lack there of you have with God.

The interesting thing about being silent is that no other person can live within the realm of your silence but you.  Heavy contemplation of who you are happens in silence. A level of honesty is present in your quiet moments that cannot be denied.  Even if  you have give people a false perception of who you are, the real version of yourself makes an appearance when you are alone with no one watching. The only drawback to that is in your own silence, and I know this will sound all preachy but if you don't have a connection to God and an understanding of His love, it is your perception of truth that takes up residence in your quiet moments.  

In the quiet moments, truths are revealed, decisions are made, perceptions are challenged, encourage is found, sorrow is amplified, troubles are calculated and peace can be attained. All of these different but holding as much power and significance.  

I have remained silent for a long while now.  So much so that speculation about why I'm silent has traveled through my family, which isn't unusual. However, what I've learned about myself is if you love someone, you don't sit back, watch them struggle, do nothing then talk about it as if they are wrong for having a struggle. The truth is we may be the owners of our struggle but the care and love that goes into pulling one out of the struggle is a community effort. What manner of man will step over a hungry man while filling his belly without cares?  

We have to think on these things before challenging someone's struggle.  In my silence I have learned a lot about who I am.  I have learned what makes me defensive. I have learned what calls out to my heart in grief. I have learned how to maintain calm in the moments when an angry tirade would be fitting for the situation.  I have also learned that every person has their own perception of each thing in this world. Some may find a common ground to stand on in judgment of others but the truth still remains that unless you are living within someone's silence, you have no idea what's going on in their heads and hearts unless they grant you access.  The problem with granting access into your silence is that the silence become broken and if there isn't an understanding of the position you stand, that person or people, even if not intentional, will become a disturbance.  

Before someone challenges someone's perception of honestly, one must understand that there is the truth that is, a truth that is perceived and a truth that is desired.  Most people can't handle the truth that is.  They feel judged and challenged in a way that is uncomfortable and they can't compete with what is. The perceived truth is gained through speculation or observance from a distance but still lacking in full transparency.  The problem with perceived truth is it feels so much like real truth that it is indeed the cause of misunderstanding, judgement, fall outs, anger and broken relationships. 

Be careful about what you think you know to be true.  

The desired truth is the hope that what is will turn into something that you would prefer instead of the reality you have to deal with.  Unfortunately, too many of us take up too much of our time, quiet or otherwise, wishing and hoping for something to be when it simply isn't.  

Hard choices are revealed in our quiet moments.  Struggles are outlined in our quiet moments.  Chaos is itemized in our quiet moments. However, do not lose heart.  In your moments of solitude, peace can be found.  Love can be revealed.  Strength can be gained. Resolution may be discovered.  

Even if you are not in a time of struggle, spend some quiet time alone.  There is a level of peace that may emote from you that others simply will not understand.  Those of us who have endured much during our lives, and that's just about everyone, need to be aware of our true selves. How we really feel about ourselves and what we desire in this lifetime. Sometimes you have to shut everything out to discover what's inside. 

May you have the mind to create quiet, reflective and peaceful moments in the midst of your storm.  May God's spirit be with you so that truth may be revealed. Not the truth you desire or perceive but the truth that is.  

B@Peace.  

   

The Struggle of Love

We encounter experiences where we are forced to come to terms with the difficulties that insert themselves in how, who and why we choose to love.  The biggest mistake someone can make is to think maintaining love will be easy.  Yes, the love feels good. It makes you feel all dreamy and gushy inside but what happens when the honeymoon phase is over? How do you keep yourself from getting annoyed at everything and take off running?

The good thing about real and true love is you understand that it takes work and sometimes it doesn't feel all dreamy and gushy,  Loving someone takes discipline. Loving someone takes patience. I know many people aren't religious but whether you are or not, the "love scriptures" are always good for anyone to know because it lays down a true foundation of what is required to love.

I Corinthians 13: 4-7

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

When someone loves, they will wait for that person they love and exercise patience in a way that reflect love in the hopes that growth is possible.   We understand that we have our own timeline when we want things to happen but in reality, things don't always happen when we want them to and this is the part of love that begins the discipline process of considering others in our plans to move forward.  Being patient calls one to have time to be thoughtful about what hey truly want in love and the more they understand their position of confidence, there is no reason to be envious or even boastful in a relationship because there is a natural essence of love that is free flowing and others will see it without you saying a word.  You don't have to ask a person if they are happy if they emote happiness in their speech, action and countenance.

5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,

Love behaves and isn't selfish.  You can see in the lineup of the scriptures that you can't do any of the proceeding guidelines without the patience.  How can you be mindful of your actions and words without being patient enough to assess your feelings and thoughts on how to "be"?  Understanding who you are and what you want in life and love helps you to be secure and respectful of not just others but yourself.

When you are in love with someone, the concept of 'only what I want' goes out of the window.  You aren't in a relationship with yourself so you can't decide everything on your own and it isn't smart to dismiss others feelings or thoughts because it doesn't tie in with what makes you comfortable at the moment.  As a person grows in life, biologically, they are aware of the changes because they become uncomfortable in the place they are in.  If a child tells you "Mommy/Daddy, my feet hurt."  Their discomfort tells the parent that they have grown and in a case like that, the parent must get new shoes for the child. One way we know our relationships are growing to a different phase is when the challenges come and you begin to feel uncomfortable.  Many people don't move beyond where they are because when they get an inkling of discomfort, instead of facing it head on, working through the discomfort to get to a new level of understand about self and their love, they revert back to behaviors and patterns that are comfortable for them.

Why eat a salad that will help you be healthier when you can get that loaded pizza and soda with wings, sit on the couch and watch a movie?  Consider the end result if you do the latter on a regular basis. Sickness comes.  When we don't move to find better ways to cope with challenge in an effort to grow, we risk having sick relationships and some relationships die as a result.

it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 

 From experience and example, I've learned that many relationships are tainted with anger and grudges.  It reminds me of a Gladys Knight and the Pips song. "Neither one of us". The chorus says "Neither one of us wants to be the first to say goodbye".  Saying goodbye isn't always necessary in rough times in a relationship but when you have so much anger for your partner and can't let go of either mistakes or wrong choices (considering that the person had apologized and tried to make up for it), instead of understanding that maybe you aren't meant to be, people stay but are miserable.   They are miserable because they haven't let go. What's the point of staying with someone if you are just going to torture them and yourself?  Seek a resolution of resolve to let go. Not that simple, I know, but something has to give.

6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 

There is an essential component of honesty that is required in relationships.  Most relationships end because of the actions and feelings that are attached to some form of deceit.  Honesty is so important. Even if it's a painful truth, I'd prefer a painful truth that wills dissolve with time and cause me to not harbor ill will towards someone. There is something about deceptive behaviors the makes it hard for people not want to trust anymore.  I believe people can recover from trust issues because trust can be rebuilt but it takes work but it comes back to discipline.  Patience to understand who you are and what you want helps with how you love and why you love.  How and why you love speaks in your motives for loving and how you approach the people you love and resolve issues.  There can be no true resolutions without honesty.  We dismiss how important honesty is but without it, there is no point being in a relationship.  If you decide as a couple that you're going to lie to each other, more power to you.

7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perserveres

Finally, when you love someone, you want them safe; mind, body and soul.  There is a protection that is implied when you trust someone with your heart and body.  There is a trust that comes with including someone else in your life. There is a level of hope that this is the right move to make and person to love and in that hope, you want it to last.  The discipline of loving is a lasting process is powerful and truthfully, many people haven't come to the place of discipline to love wholly and truly but as we live, we learn. I'm glad that each day I'm given a chance to forgive, love in truth and find happiness.  Even if everyday isn't the happiest, there is something about knowing you love someone and they love you back that gets you through the challenging times.


Be patient with love.  Work at it. Hopefully, happiness will attach itself to you even in the tough times. Be blessed. Be disciplined in love. B@Peace!

Life in perspective

Each day you wonder what will happen that will change the course of your current situation in life. What will be that thing or that event that you cannot ignore or turn away from? What will be done, will you have to do, or will happen that will set your life on a different course, place you on the proper course or stop you dead in your track and make you re-evaluate everything you think you know about life and yourself?   Some things happen that change the paradigm that we have built our lives around. Some things we have the power to change because we can see the patterns of our behavior or there are logical outcomes based on the situations but there are also instances where you have no idea that certain events will occur.  When you don't know something is going to happen, you cannot avoid that event from happening. 

Most people see situations on the news or hear others speak of certain misfortunes or tragedies and think "man, I'm sure glad that's not me." but when it is you, how can you cope?  What do you have inside of you that will help you carry on through the roughest of time without wanting to give up and throw in the towel?

Most people have their source of strength and belief system that gives them the coping skills even when they aren't sure they can fully give themselves to those systems at the moment when they are grasping to hold onto what they know vs what they feel.  I am a woman of faith. I have unwavering faith in God that has been tested time and time again but even in the moments I feel that maybe, just maybe God has decided not to keep me in his direct or peripheral view, I am still His child and that doesn't mean He doesn't love me or isn't paying attention.  We all have our moments when life takes you for a loop but what is that thing that brings you back to the reality that, in the simplest way I can put it, "Life Happens"?

No person is exempt from bad things happening. People would like to reserve all bad events for the people who do bad things, hurt people, are mean and evil but the truth is that life doesn't discriminate.  Good and bad happen to all people.  The important thing is to always understand that so that whatever happens, you won't have a false sense of undeserved events or God being unfair for "letting" something happen to you.   You are human. Life happens to humans. People live. Everyone at some point will die regardless of how long we want to live.  We don't want to see our loved ones hurt or die but even if you have the good fortune to live a life with minimum tragic events, you will experience some pain even if indirectly. 

As I write this I am sitting in a hospital waiting room in PG County, MD where my brother-in-law is in ICU due to someone hitting him with a car while he was walking home two nights ago.  The person hit him, got out of the car and fled, leaving my brother-in-law in the road.  This situation could have been much worse had it not been for a pedestrian passing by and called 911 to get him help. What is amazing is even though he suffered a broken pelvis, broken wrist, broken nose, punctured lung, broken bones near his eye, broken ribs and a few more injuries...O_O, he was able to laugh, pray and talk a little.  I am ever grateful at the spirit  which he carries with him because without his faith and the drive to live and have a more abundant quality of life with the gift of a second chance, his healing may not be as complete as it can be. I believe our attitude and level of faith has a great deal to do with how you heal. 

His spirits are wonderful for a man who is in so much pain. He expresses his love to all his friends and family and those who didn't even know him but interceded in prayer on his behalf.  I admire the drive to simply survive but when you want to live you will yourself to get through the pain.  He will be okay.  I believe and trust he will be.  I love my brother and when he hurts, our whole family hurts.  When he is in need, we are all available to help him. 

Life tends to come out of left field and tackle you but as long as life is present, you can get up and move forward even if the steps are short and someone has to hold you up.  KEEP GOING!!!

Everybody ain't got a word

Okay. So, in my cleaning extravaganza this morning, I listened to a J. Moss song called "Everybody Ain't Got a Word" and I kinda laughed to myself because some of the lyrics are funny but the song speaks of a deeper understanding of what God's plan for your life may be and how some people, though some may think they are doing some good, could be interrupting the flow of blessings to your life by giving you information based on their own opinions and calling it "God inspired".  If you have a relationship with God where you seek him daily, move by His direction and understand where his plan is taking you, you can tell the difference between what He wants for you and what you want to do that isn't in line with His will for your life. There are many times we pray for things that we know we shouldn't have and even though there is NO SIGN OR MESSAGE FROM GOD validating that thing, we create, seek and find ANYTHING that will make us feel like that wrong thing is right to do.  In kind, there are some people who want so much to be "THAT PERSON" who is responsible for good things in your life so they can lay claim to it that they will come to you with the "I have a word from God" and if  you know the character of some people, you know, in your spirit, who these people really are and what motivates those words.

I am a firm believer that God can use whomever He chooses to relay a message to His people. I also believe that the enemy will try the same tactic and cover deception under the guise of holiness. Be careful. Pray for discernment and you will begin to understand that God is wondrous and will not lead His children into destruction. Being in an uncomfortable position designed to eventually build you up is completely different that being in a place designed to destroy you. The deception of words is detrimental to the plan God has set up for you. Words can bring down an empire. Words can end friendships. Words can end marriages. Words can cause a person to lose themselves in a world that, by their view, doesn't love or care about them. Action may speak louder than words sometimes but words can cause hurt, harm, and hopelessness. Everything people tell you isn't golden.

Know that if the Lord sends you a message, it will be confirmed in time. Don't just jump because someone said something that sounds good to you.  You know your heart and what you desire. That thing you desire can be a wonderful thing but God may have more in store for you so he wants you to be patient. Understand, being patient and waiting on God may be an arduous feat but if you want to reap the benefits of the blessings He's designed for you, patience is required. Understanding that point, be mindful who you share your dreams and desires with because you may think this person is helping but if they are not praying with and for you on your dreams and desires, they may turn into a hindrance instead of a help. God speaks but he doesn't always go through a cycle of people to get the message through to you. He can bring it directly to your spirit. You may even try to run from some of the things He place in your spirit directly but the thing is...you can't run from God. No matter how much you don't want to believe; no matter how much you think you know; no matter how much you trust yourself and others, God will always make Himself known.


Lots of people want to call themselves prophets or be the ones to give a "prophetic word" and claim they are led by the "spirit" but every spirit isn't from God. Honestly, I think the word "prophetic" makes some people feel like they have just encountered something "deep" and use the word out of context. I have had many people tell me I have said prophetic words and this has always been my reaction:

O_O

lol

There are some things that sound true that are really not so be mindful of that before you leap thinking you are going into a God ordained endeavor then find yourself in turmoil because you have followed someone into the lion's den.  There will always be people there to push you into a fleshly, earthly desires and there are some who will be your "Amen Corner" when your desire is not necessarily fleshly or earthly but still may not be meant for you. Seek the Lord for yourself. Under His guidance, trust yourself to follow the right path. People are always going to tell you what they think or what they think God wants for you. Say thank you and continue praying, working and being faithful and whatever your path may be, it will be confirmed and you will know you are on the right tract.

Stay TRU!

Easier said than done but not IMPOSSIBLE

Forgiveness. We all like to say it and we all like to think that we have a good handle on how, when and whom to forgive but the truth is many people are still holding on to hurt that has caused them to have an altered view of their potential reality as well as their assumed past. I find that no one ever really has the whole truth about hurtful situations. They only have their perspective of events and outcomes and from that perspective, a judgment is made primarily based on immediate emotion. I say this not to say don't feel how you feel but to say that I understand that our anger can sometimes be justified by the events experienced but how often do we stop in the midst of our anger, rage, disappointments and chaotic reminiscing to truly see that there is a benefit to the awful experience. Heck no, I'm not saying that the events and experiences that cause you pain are good things but sometimes we have to talk ourselves down from the ledge long enough to get a better view of things.

People are...well, people. One thing we all must understand is the capacity humans have to disappoint and mess up is great. Being emotional thinkers, our species desires to rationalize everything and fit the human experience in a box.  Being an emotional spiritual thinker creates a three dimensional view of these same experiences.

If you do not operate under the emotional spiritual thinker umbrella, you will only see the problem and the result. When you add the spiritual component to your existence, you will not only see the problem and the result but you will also see the purpose. It's hard, I know, to want to see the purpose in an awful experience but what we must ask ourselves is this: The person you have become, would you have been a better person without the challenging experiences? Would you understand you will to persevere? If that person would have stayed in your life, would they have contributed to you being a better person or would they have contributed to the development of a careless, loveless, uninspired version of yourself? How can we determine if an absence or presence has truly enhanced our lives to it's full potential of being?  The answer to all of those questions is simply, "We simply do not know."

Being the emotional spiritual thinker that I am, I can share many stories with people about hardships, disappointments, mistreatment, abuse, depression, challenges and what feels like missed opportunities to be better but I will say this, without understanding my spiritual purpose, I would never be able to reconcile the issues of the past (and present).  Without the peace that surpasses all understanding, I couldn't sleep at night. People ask me why am I so calm most of the time. My answer is when you have gone through some of the storms I have, a drizzling rain doesn't phase you.

We all are examples of the outcomes of our experiences. We are the living billboard for what happens when you approach a problem in a particular way.

People hurt us more than we are willing to confess and some of us can't move forward because we harbor so much anger and hatred for these people. We curse them and carry with us a burden that the person who caused it may never actually know about. What is I told you that while you are so angry at that person for leaving that you are missing that because that person left, it activated your determination to be dedicated and never leave the ones you love? What if that event, for some reason, enhanced your determination to never place anyone else in the angry and hurt position you are in? What the emotional thinkers miss that the emotional spiritual thinker grasp is that after seeing that despite those bad situations, you still have a spirit of survival and overcoming and the person you are is in a crazy way BECAUSE of the hurt you've experienced. Once you can appreciate who you are, not saying that there aren't components in your life you wish were different as a result of the past, you are able to release the hurt little by little. It's not an easy process but it's not impossible.  Your past designed the version of yourself.

Forgiveness is not for the person who wronged you.  Forgiveness is for your heart and mind.  Some people hurt others not because they intend to but because they don't know how not to. I have always believed that God, in his infinite sometimes confusing wisdom, knows what He's doing even when terrible things happen that makes us question if he is really there and if he is, why is he allowing these things to happen.  Have you ever heard the phrase "Hurt people hurt people"?  Well, it's true but we must make an effort to break this vicious cycle and forgiveness is the tool for the job.

God never said if you live by his will that no pain will befall you.  He never said he will ensure you never struggle. He never said that He will remove the storm so you won't experience it. What He will do is be our strength when we are weak. He will carry us when we can't walk any further. He will comfort us when we grieve. He will watch over us when our earthy stewards leave us alone. He will hear your cry and above all, He will answer.  The mistake we make is assuming God will answer our prayers and request in the time in which we desire or demand.

God is not our personal valet.

With all that we request from God, we still have a responsibility of our own.  With the experiences we are given, we still have to activate our faith and work at it. Nothing is easy and


Someone walked away from you. Your dad left as a kid. Your mom decided she couldn't take it so she walked away. That sister or brother you loved so much decided they didn't want to stay under your parents' roof anymore so they bailed. The experience left you broken, confused and angry. It's important that once you have reached a point where you can stop and reflect on your life that you not focus just on the bad and with a desire for healing understand the events that happened and begin the process of letting go.

As a kid, you see things one sided but the truth is you will never know exactly why people leave and why they felt they had to. If they though it necessary to leave, even for selfish reasons, would you have rather that person stay in your life and be a negative or harmful influence? Parents' split and try to spare the children the truth but sometimes the stories that aren't told leave voids that are filled with angry interpretation of events that may not be accurate and if they are, they cause such injury sustaining memories leaving a person wounded.  If you live to reach adulthood and has someone to love you unconditionally, take that experience and let yourself let some of the bad go. The people who love you now, can you imagine your life without them? If you didn't go through the tough times, would you have made it to this level of love that is more than you imagined. The hurt had a purpose and after you realize that it did, it's time to begin the healing process of forgiveness and letting the pain go.  Forgiveness doesn't mean the memories go away but once you have peace you may find you don't think of the bad stuff as much and when you do, you grieve for a moment but you say "It made me who I am today" and you keep on pushing.

Life for me, my loved ones, ain't been no crystal stairs but I was allowed to peak over the banister to see a different view of things. I don't do much preaching or advice distribution to people about how to live, forgive or just be but people ask me because they see something. I struggle just like everyone but every so often someone may ask me something out of the blue which lets me know that people do watch you.

One question I'm asked often is "How do you deal with your stress and depression?" There is not cookie cutter answer for that. I just remember that I have made it through other storms and I have faith I'll make it through current storms and if I don't make it, I know I gave it a good fight and didn't faint.

I pray that we, as adults, learn how to deal with, not only the difficult moments of the present but the moments in the past that we still hold onto. It's not easy. Have enough faith in yourself that you can trust that God will give you what you seek. Peace.  Wrong doers will have their moment of judgment. Don't wait around so you can sit on the jury. Live. Life fully! Live with love! Live with gratefulness that you have made it to a point of being able to let go. All that's left to do now is let go and live life more abundantly!

Loved ones, I wish you peace and happiness for today, tomorrow and forever.

B@peace!
Stay TRU