Saturday, June 12, 2010

The Affections of the Forgotten.

Okay. So I don't necessarily plan to write, only, about lovey dovey muah muah muah love. Yeah, that would be, both, BORING and slightly lame. I am all for the "I love you, baby." "Oh I love you, too. Kiss my face because I'm so hot." dialog but um, no.  Currently, I am experiencing that "Disney Love" but I'm very realistic and know that love doesn't always come with a soundtrack of awesome catchy tunes that tell of a happily ever after. The complicated thing about trying to keep that wonderment and newness that drives you to desire more of that thing or person which you love is that nothing is ever certain.

As I sit here in this hot a$$ room, I reminisce on the stories and the first hand sight of love that has taken a left hand turn down a dark and never ending road. Somehow, some people have just forgotten the feeling of a new love and allow it to become stagnant and left behind a myriad of daunting focus grubbing issues.


"Yeah, Yeah, You're living in a fairy tale. That kind of love where birds chirp doesn't exist, Tru." - any random person. I don't know. I just wanted to use the quote function. (^_^)

Well, maybe you just don't want to hear the birds. Maybe you've listened to so many people's tales of bad relationships that you figure your relationship should be defined by the same jacked up standards. Well...I'm sorry if you feel that way because not all relationships have to be ridden with pain and suffering. Some people do talk. Some people do support each other. Some people do desire to see the best in an imperfect person. Some people can say "I need  you." and most of all, some people have a longing to be the person to change the flow of what relationships have become; temporary gratification followed by resentment, anger, remorse, jealousy and insecurity.  I don't know everything but this is what I do know, people should make the most of what they love and make the most out of the time they spend with loved ones. Tell them that you love them. USE THOSE WORDS. "I LOVE YOU."

Some people are longing to be loved and feel neglected and unwanted.  It doesn't have to be a spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend. It could just be a friend, a sibling or someone that you know that just needs to know someone cares. Get up. Get out. Give some love away.

Remember, real life requires real signs of affection.
~STAY TRU

1 comment:

  1. affection is sometimes a difficult thing to come by in such a modern society that makes men feel gay because of their ability to physically show or recieve outward displays of affection..
    boooooo society !!!

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